We all love summer, right? And most don’t like winter a lot. But they always repeat – like summer so does winter, spring and autumn. »Maybe you already know what Im talking about.« And through all the years we all have learn that’s really nothing we could do about weather seasons, they come and go, every year at same time.. Well in life is pretty much the same, we have spring when everything starts to grow, you have new goal new focus, then comes summer when you seeing some results , next one is autumn when rains a lot but it’s still colourful and well everytime also comes a winter – you know place when dosen’t go everything like we were planing. The only the only diffrence between weather and life is that in life maybe is first spring and then from nowhere can come winter. We all know that; your starting with some big plans, everything goes as plan and you are really starting to enjoy, then some events happen in life that you didn’t expect and it’s seems that everything goes to hell? Well I know that situation pretty well, it’s all part of life. Though we can not delete that »winter« events in our life we could prepare for it and we can do something about it rather that be emotional freaks – like blaming everthing around us – other people or feel sorry for yourself. When comes winter in weather season you go dress something warmer, right? You don’t feel sorry for yourself neither do you blame other people that you are cold or that is snowing outside. You go and find the solution to make you feel better.
– Why don’t we do the same in our life when it comes to winter? Why don’t we go after solution rather than stick to our excuses and in meantime doing nothing about making things better?
Well the reason lies in your head in your state of mind. We’ve learnd ourself through years that kind of respond on situation. Well it’s not only our fault, the parents taught us and they didn’t even know it, people around taught us. And in the end it became a habit, it’s nothing more than habit – and we can change it. »First step is to be aware of it.«
I’ve got a short stroy to tell you!
Let’s go back to begining, in spring. You’ve made a decisicion to plant some seeds and you are searching right place for them – so you can take care of them and watch them grow. »And you must really take care of them, everyday you have to get up and go watered them. Somedays they need a more water and some less – but they will not grow if you don’t carefully watch them and do everything so they can become big and to bring you product that you wish for.«
You wake up every morning convinced in your seeds, with all focus. You keep the discipline »which is basic of everything if you want something to grow.« Little by little you start to recognizing how seeds are turning to plants and you are absolutly overjoyed! Here is your first feeling that summer is near! Greeeat feeling, right? »Everything is possible, I can do it!« So you continue to follow your plan – everyday! Finally through little more time what you’ve planted has giving you some product – and summer is officially here.
For a couple more days you go and check your plants, but then one morning you sleep a little longer and think to yourself »It should not be a problem if I don’t check it one day« and that one day turns to a week. When you finally remembered that your plants maybe need some water and to go check at it, you realize that they are pretty much thirsty and if that is not enough you see some follows of insects. »I think autumn is a little bit here already.« With all power you do everything to save that plants, but you are not so sure if you can do it »IT CAN BE DONE, but your focus is more on what you’ve done wrong and all the insects rather than SOLUTION?« So through couple of days you don’t see any good changes and your ALL POWER goes to 50% power. Then few more days pass it by and you can already smell a winter!
Now you are really really scared what will happen and you lost almost all focus that was there at beginning of spring..
So how your gonna prepare for winter? Ask yourself?
- Will you let it all go with saying to yourself »that was not your year – anyway you can try it next spring?«, find milion excuses why it didn’t work? »If just that insects wouldn’t appeared, they’ve spoiled all.«
- Or will you take situation in your hands and find some solutions? Admit to yourself that you’ve screwed things? »Cuz deep inside you already know that insects always come, always. You are in charge to get rid of them, so that your plants can grow on.«
Would you learn something and do everything to save your plants? Or would you wait for another spring? To do it again and again and again.
Of course if your plants don’t make it through winter, I hope you will do it again next spring. But did you do your all ?